How do you, or do you even, ASK? 

We never know until we ask. It’s such a powerful thing. It can be scary, because we don’t want to be declined, and may take a rejection personally, but most of the times any rejection has very little to do with us personally. 

To take it all a step further into our brains — our brains will also try to stop us from asking by throwing self doubt, insecurities, and more to try to get us to keep the current, predictable, same-old-same-old path. Change is scary to our lizard (fight or flight part of the brain) so it will try to avoid change. 

However, change is required with growth, with goals, with ambitions. SOmething needs to change for us to grow. Asking can feel vulnerable, to put out that we need or want something from someone else, but it is also a great strength.  

Asking can also mean discovering great partnerships, new leads, new ideas, collaborations. It’s a powerful thing to do. 

AND we might actually get what we ask for! So, ask. 

Here’s my ask: grab some friends and come get updated headshots, it’s a new season, and you’ve got new energy, let’s show it. I’m also offering a group discount. And a space to hang out and connect, network. Call me today to find out more.

Asking is a big part of entrepreneurship

STOP, remember where you started

Look back. A brilliant speaker recently said “remember to look at how far you’ve come.” 

We can get so caught up in where we want to go, and the frustrations and worries and concerns about what is ahead, that we often forget all that we’ve already built. How far we’ve already come. 

Take a moment, savor it, look back at where you were at 20, 30, or even 40 years ago. What have you done since then? What have you learned? How have you grown?

Make a habit of celebrating, train yourself into that feeling of joy, celebration, accomplishment. The journey is rarely ever east, but we can make it more joyful. 

Savor it a minute and breath. You’ve got this. 

And I’ve got you, at least your images for your marketing, for your next big thing.

Drop me a message and let’s talk.

Remembering how far we've come

What you need for marketing images now!

I am so happy fat right now with marketing images. I did my own session recently and feel like I just sat down to a marketing thanksgiving dinner table! So many images to stand out, stop the scroll, and get my message across. 

Creating packages so my clients have fat portfolios of images they can use for a variety of marketing breaks my heart open. These sessions are so much fun, creativity on both sides gets unleashed (yes, even if you don’t think you have any, I guarantee you have more ideas than you thought you did. 

Here’s an example of some of what I got this week: 

A bunch of facial expressions to express different intentions (shock, calm, fear, love, silly)

And directionals, to be able to point at messages, readers follow eye gaze and hand gestures (i.e., looking or pointing to your call to action)

Directional images

And then there’s basic profile images. More than a headshot, getting images that cause people to click on your profile so they can see more — sometimes literally: why not use a full body image, so they can’t see your face immediately (save that for the website and marketing messages!), but with bright eye-catching colors so they want to click on it — and then they are on your page! HUZZAH! (Where you will have all your brilliant content ready to entice them in to learn more. If not, let me know, I work with some great partners that are happy to help you figure that part out!)

Have fun! Let me know how it turns out. I’d love to see your images. Or drop me a line and I can help create them for you.

How does brain science affect being photogenic?

Denver Portraits using brain science

“I’m not photogenic, I rarely like any photos of myself.” Is this you? Is this nearly EVERYONE? 

If you think you’re alone in this statement I’ve got news for you: everyone has something they are shy about, or worried, or ashamed of even. 

I get it. I understand. I’ve been there, and it’s pretty normal. 

When we are putting ourselves out in the world, when we are doing something new and maybe way outside out comfort zone, our beautiful brains will try to side track us. Mostly because it’s easier to stay in our comfort zone, not risky, not scary, no unknowns. 

But that’s not you. You are ready to grow, learn, create toward your goals and dreams. 

Or maybe just uplevel your headshot. Which alone can be scary. It’s still ‘being seen’ on a new level. 

Insecurities are usually the first to knock on our door. Imposter syndrome and self doubt are often regular visitors. 

But don’t worry, you’re still safe. You are just feeling the growing pains of the new

I’ll make sure to check in with you throughout your session and get your feedback to make sure we get the best images for you, showing your essence, showing your story, and images you can feel great about showing to the world.

Drop me a message and learn more. Much love, Mariah 

Denver Portraits using brain science

I just need a headshot

“I just need a headshot.”

“Why ‘just’?

“Just” is used to diminish things.

To make something smaller, less important, less significant.

NO! I need to share my story, my work.

Is that what you want to be small, less important, less significant.

IT IS TIME TO PLAY BIG. 

Play to WIN, to grow, expand.

Where you want your business to be in 5 years? Start playing like that.

“Just a headshot” is not going to get you there.

Where you want to BE, not where you are NOW, and create your brand in that direction.

YES! 

Some people avoid getting a headshot done because they don’t feel worthy. They don’t feel validated in their space enough to do it, much less get a full personal branding portfolio. 

A full portfolio is 30+ curated images ready to use on many platforms, numerous marketing messages, ready to populate your website, and get YOU SEEN AND HEARD!

It’s scary taking that step, validating yourself and your dreams. 

A photo session alone can help you do that. I’ve seen numerous clients go on to elevate their business. Grow subscribers, further their reach, make more money, more speaking gigs, publish that book, do more good. 

Who are you NOT to play BIG? 

I believe it’s our duty to play big, to do as much as we can. 

Don’t let that inner critique stop you from doing and being the most, the best you can. 

Go get ‘em!

I’m here to support you, and help create your genuine brand story, show the spirit of you.

Contact me today to learn more. 

Time to play big.